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Friends…

Murali Palani — Sun, 27 Jul 2008 05:14:06 +0000

Most of the dictionary describes Friends as “A person you know well and regard with affection and trust”. I am one of those people who would say that ‘I could live without food but not without friends’. This is a unique relationship which most of us have. We won’t call everybody we know as friends until we have an affection and trust, based on a factor called LOVE. Who said friends don’t expect anything in return… everybody will expect a return and Friends are no exceptions. The expectation here is the love in return. I care for my friend and my friend care for me. We often pronounce ‘I love you’ to friends to show them that we care and love them. Many times friends are the first person we share any emotion or feelings which we might not even share with our parents or spouse. Why we do this, because we know that they could listen. Most of the people in the world want someone to listen to them and they themselves could solve their problem. Friends are the first choice.

I am happy to have my friends around me always, even though some are staying away physically but not from heart. I love my friends

Are we all blind?

Murali Palani — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 21:49:48 +0000

Wondering if every body of us is blind in the pathway called – life. Blind persons take every step carefully unless or otherwise it is well known to them. They are really superb in understanding and observing what is happening around them. So every body in the pathway of life, we really don’t know what’s next, we carefully observe the situation and proceed with the next step, until we do the same thing we used to do it regularly. We have the experience, like the stick for blinds that will help us not to fall very often. Life is not a cake walk, but it will be if you know what you are doing. You can take calculated risk in life. If you are never failed that means you haven’t tried anything new in life.

It is good to fall may be not often, but you should get back to walk as quickly as possible, else others will run over you, because we all are blinds…

Need a chance to correct my mistake…

Murali Palani — Thu, 08 May 2008 03:56:53 +0000

I need a chance to correct my mistake, and then everything will fall in place. I have many times thought, if I have given an opportunity to go back to past, I will correct my blender. I hope this thought would have come to most of us. Are we not satisfied with what we have or everybody is worried about the mistake they had done? The answer is debatable, but the truth always remains constant. Everybody wants to have their best at any point of time. If we have the option to go to past, everybody would want to rectify their mistakes and will avoid the failures.

Knowing the future is a mystery until we have the power to change the past. But with these mistakes only I have learnt the worthiness of the success… without which we will never be able to feel. Some times pains teach us more than anything else. I will correct my mistake by not repeating it again

Tomorrow is a secret…

Murali Palani — Sun, 27 Apr 2008 19:43:03 +0000

Even though we plan so much for the future… the future is always remains as a secret. No body will be able to predict it perfectly… because some things will be always away from our control. Does this mean we don’t have to plan anything for tomorrow, absolutely not; we can give our best for the tomorrow… rest is left to the unknown… There will not be any thrill if we know everything in advance… it will not add any value to our life, am I right???

The unknown always laid a path to success and discoveries… it had showed us how to bring the hidden power of ourselves… we learn only from the unknown. But everybody wants to read only the book which is not open… like the tomorrow which is still not open, but we never care much about the past or present.

Every secret will be relived and then it will be no more a secret… but till then all tomorrows are a secret….

The world has shrunk…

Murali Palani — Tue, 22 Apr 2008 05:25:20 +0000

Around few thousand years ago people never knew this earth completely. They never knew there are other countries and culture… but today… it is not like that. The world has shrunk… everybody is equally aware of everything, anybody can communicate to anybody in a fraction of second. People can watch what’s happening in any part of the world… but all these things brought up more love and affection with the fellow human kind… the answer is no. With this communication and technology people is in urge to supress the other nation. They try to dominate with their power… force the internal decision of the other country with their supremacy. Conquering is not yet over… it’s still continues even though the world has shrunk…

Time…

Murali Palani — Wed, 16 Apr 2008 03:54:04 +0000

Can we control our destiny yes if you could able to control the Time? The time is the only factor which can’t be controlled by any body till now (hoping soon). It is the greatest asset and the greatest liability of all. The time could change anything in the world it can bring dynasty to ashes and ashes to dynasty in few seconds… the history always told us one lesson… that who is could able to utilize properly is the one who conquered the world… we have examples throughout the time…

So if you want to control your destiny, properly utilize the time… show your love and care when you could show, because tomorrow you might not have another chance to show them, because the time never returns back.

Money matters…

Murali Palani — Wed, 16 Apr 2008 03:30:04 +0000

Money matters a lot, yeah I too agree that the money matters a lot. It can buy anything we wish for, get great cars, houses, anything under the sun, sometimes it can even bring people closer. So can we conclude it is everything that we need, but the obvious answer is no…
We have many things which even money can’t buy like satisfaction, peace of mind, intelligence, and of course true love. Many times we lose our life because of money. Leaving our loved once and staying away can bring more Money but not life… Is it okay to sacrifice everything for a little more money which we couldn’t get in our own place? I am not sure… because I am also one among those… who left the heart and life for the little more money

Who am I?

Murali Palani — Sun, 13 Apr 2008 04:50:30 +0000

I believe everybody has this question one or other point of time. I too have this question, every time when I am thinking about myself. Do I to believe that I have born for a reason, I have to fulfill some duties already assigned to me or it was a just a physical – genetic matter. I am not spiritual nor against the presence of the super natural power, but wanted to be practical. So how do i define myself or gauge myself? What should I need to do? Have I taken the correct carrier? What I will be in another five years down the line? These questions will get answered but when?

The search continues…

Everything happens for a reason…

Murali Palani — Sat, 12 Apr 2008 18:50:00 +0000

I strongly believe that everything happens for a reason whether it is good or bad. It could be a small/large but it has hidden truths which can be only reveled by the time. I always wondered in my life why it happens only to me; why I am the only sufferer, but the hidden truth is everybody undergoes these things and everybody has these questions. We never ask when something’s turns out to be very good without much hard work… but we only ask if some thing turns out to be negative. We have our own attractions towards things which are good for us… and never think on the other side the ultimate truth. I have been like this till now…
Till this 28 years lots of things have happened, if I haven’t taken my science stream in my pre UG, if I haven’t joined that organization, if I haven’t met her, if i haven’t gone there.. So there are so many ifs in my life… and so many buts in life. Nothing can be decided nor can be changed, u continues doing your best and the result will follow, and just not Gita but it is the truth.
I strongly believe until we have life in our body… anything can be lost and we can still become the best… because everything happens for a reason…

Everything needs a starting point…

Murali Palani — Sat, 12 Apr 2008 18:34:08 +0000

Hi Dudes,
Everything needs a starting point… and for me this is the starting point.
I am not a creative writer or a great Bolger… but I wish I could be one in near future…
As of now I am not planning to restrict my blog on categories… sky is the limit… will write on what I get impressed. Read those if you like, comment me if you don’t like
Let me rediscover myself in the world of blogging…
Bye,
Catch you guys soon